Half Empty or Half Full?

Half empty or half full? We've all heard the analogy. Let me rework it. I've had the opportunity over the years to either be a part of, or at least be around, many different subcultures within the Christian community. From snake handlers to Sword of the Lorders to Jesus Freaks to fried chicken loving low country Baptists to painted up high gloss (or dressed down ) Rick Warrenites to high church Brooks Brothers Episcopalians, I've been around, been a part of, or seen it all. One thing that does stand out is that every group seems to have a unique definition of what being "good" is. All would basically ascribe to the basic tenets of the Ten Commandments, but each tweaks what is acceptable, and what is not. Many of the differences center around what we can eat or drink, or what we do with our money. In other words: can I drink alcohol or eat pork, can I smoke, can I drive a Cadillac or do I have to drive a Chevrolet, or how long does my hem line have to be, or do I even have to wear a dress at all, or can I wear makeup and, if so how much, can I play bingo or the lottery, and how much money do I have to give to the church?

It is commendable that people try to do good things. But, when they start tallying up their good points versus their neighbor's is when the trouble begins. Folks begin to see their spiritual glass as more full than their neighbor's if they think that they are doing more of the things that they believe to be good and less of the things that they perceive to be bad. The sad part is that many of the people doing the comparing (or being compared to) may not be that virtuous anyway. We may be blind to their faults, their sins, and their motivations. We might even have a misguided sense of what we should emulate, or what we should flee from. The result is a healthy dose of pride that has the effect of overriding any of the good that our "goodness" might produce.

On the other hand, the Orthodox glass is always half empty. Actually, the Orthodox glass is practically empty. There may be one little drop in the bottom of our spiritual glass. We are encouraged in a multitude of ways to compare ourselves first to the life and example of the Lord Jesus Christ, and then to the lives of those people who, by consensus, are considered "Saints". (By the way, we also accept the New Testament sense of what a "saint" is.) These are people who acquired a closeness to God in this life beyond others, and who are illuminated by the work of the Holy Spirit. They performed miracles of various sorts in their earthly life, and they and their relics perform miracles after they repose. Their bodies do not undergo decay and produce other wonders from within the grave.

Comparing ourselves to these people one realizes that our lives are incredibly far from where God wants then to be. There is no room for comparison, and there is no place for pride to spring up within us. At the same time, we are to stand in front of icons of these great saints and be reminded of how high the standard is. From their icons they beckon to us to walk a path that will lead us to where they are.

We are also prohibited from comparing ourselves to the person standing next to us in church. The story of the publican and the sinner standing in the Temple is taken very seriously. We are to be concerned with our own spiritual state and to cry out, "Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner." As the Lord Jesus Christ chastised St. Peter when we asked what was to become of St. John, so we are chastised when we become embroiled in someone else's spiritual business. We are encouraged to see our glass as empty, and devote our energies to living a Godly life, waiting to be filled by the grace and mercy of God.

It is a breath of fresh air to be around Orthodox believers. There is no competition, no sense of competition to be more "Godly", and no whispering about who is doing what. Come along with me and raise your near empty glass.